MyLifeIsAverage – Life Is Normal Today

Today I gave a telemarketers phone number to another telemarketer. I feel like I’ve brought some justice to the universe. MLIA

via MyLifeIsAverage – Life Is Normal Today.

Period dramas/miniseries

Top 7 miniseries:

BBC Pride and Prejudice

North and South

Wives and Daughters

Victoria and Albert

Daniel Deronda

Tess of the D’Urbervilles(Justine Waddell)

The Tenant of Wildfell Hall(Tara Fitzgerald, Toby Stephens)

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MyLifeIsAverage – Life Is Normal Today

Today, I realized that if you write out 3.14 and put it up to a mirror, it reads PI.E. Mind. Blown. MLIA.

via MyLifeIsAverage – Life Is Normal Today.

Dreams and remembering

How odd. I dreamed last night that I went to the prom with Darren. Or rather, not Darren, but someone very much like Darren, a little older, more grown-up, more articulate and mature, but still the blond, husky, little-boy-charming, more-brawn-than-brains that Darren was. He may even have been on the football team for all I know, though the dream didn’t specify. Which(the fact that I dreamed about him) is odd, because I haven’t thought about him for years. Yes, coming home for the summer always casts me back to my high school years, and one of my other high school crushes has been often on my mind, but not Darren. And then I realized that it’s because the blond guy in the TV show I’ve been watching with my sister – 10 Things I Hate About You – reminds me of him. Not bookishly clever, but somehow possessed of a certain self-confidence(which of course thinly veiled a deep insecurity) and ease around girls that makes him very endearing. Darren was of the “pull the girl’s pigtails to let her know that you like her variety”. On him I could hone the sharp edge of my tongue all I wanted to, and I did, to the great delight of he, his friends, our class, and even the teacher. But I always kept him at arms length(sometimes literally) and now sometimes I wish that I hadn’t. I wish that I’d had more freedom in high school. Had my parents not been around, I suspect that I would have gone out with him and maybe even tumbled into a heady, completely destructive relationship. For that I’m thankful that my parents were around, to keep me from even entertaining my own stupidity. But I do wish, looking back, that I could have gone out on one date with him. That I would have done willingly(with a list of rules beforehand), and it would have given us both a kind of resolution, and would have, if not satisfied him, at least given him something to remember. As it is, we drifted gradually apart(we were never in the same social circles, we would have broken not just parental code but also high school social code if we’d gone out – the jock and the not-quite geek. In those days the football team sucked and its players were only held in middling high esteem, while I vacillated between the geeky circles and the popular circles. I was out of his league and everyone knew it, and I was also, for him, an aberration from the busty, mostly shallow younger blondes that were, or so high school held it, more suitable for someone like him). I gave him a long-promised hug on the field  on graduation day, and that was the end of that.

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Evening is the Whole Day

Cross-posted from my lit blog.

Finished Preeta Samarasan’s debut novel Evening is the Whole Day, and it was wonderful. After a shaky, meandering beginning, the novel became a delightful, riveting, well-crafted effort from a Malaysian writer who knows how to make a good story out of a simple family tale. The novel hums. It’s not quite brilliant, but very close, and for once in modern-day fiction, it tells a story.  After finishing it, I was comparing the deep sense of satisfaction I get from it with the ugly, adrift feeling I get from reading certain of Colm Toibin’s books, or from reading John Banville’s Booker-prize winning The Sea, which always feels to me like a self-indulgent, almost voyeuristic glance into the inner life of an unappetizing character. I am beginning to wonder if the reason that I find so much of modern western literature unappealing is because it is too inward-turning, too focused on the individual, one individual in particular and his/her inner psychological workings, too consumed with seeing the world through only one character’s eyes. I’ve always liked books which had a single strong protagonist which we can identify with and experience everything with – Jane Eyre springs to mind – but the difference is that with those books, I actually liked and respected the protagonist, so it was a delight to walk with them and perceive the world through their filtered experiences, emotions, and thoughts. It’s very rare for me to find a protagonist of any sort in modern western literature with whom I can truly identify, much less enjoy. It seems to me that modern writers have rebounded too much against the traditional story form of having clearly “good” protagonists, with the result that their protagonists are now not just judiciously or humanly flawed, but actually offputting – to the extent that reading their thoughts and minds is like an exercise in a particularly ugly form of mental voyeurism. It is alright to have flawed heroes/heroines, even anti-heroes, etc. But the world seen through their eyes, and only their eyes, becomes a particularly trivial, sordid, depressing thing, and worse, the novel as a whole becomes a claustrophobic and self-obsessive (often cyclical) experience. Which leads to me often really not caring about the protagonist, and when that all-important element fails, I have very little real story or plot to carry me through or fall back on, because what novels like these are most interested in is a sort of winding, spirally approach to the protagonist’s life and inner life, with the former much subordinated to the latter, and so what I get instead of a story is a psychological study of a single, often uninteresting or unappealing character.

But I digress. This is why I found Samarasan’s novel so appealing, and such a refreshing change – her novel is not focused on a single character, but covers each of the members of the Rajasekharan family in turn, though the heart and soul of the story is six-year old Aasha, and even more importantly her novel has an actual plot. It is not that she doesn’t rely on the elliptical narration, the jumping back-and-forth in time so popular among modern novelists, because she does, but rather that she uses a sure hand with these devices, and that the structures don’t overwhelm and seldom distract from the story itself, which is vibrant and strong enough to overcome all novelistic machinations.

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Zooey Deschanel: A new Annie Hall? – Features, Films – The Independent

Zooey Deschanel: A new Annie Hall? – Features, Films – The Independent.

You don’t get much coolor than the Deschanel sisters. If I weren’t already madly jealous of Zooey Deschanel for being ridiculously cool, having her own vibrant, completely unique clothing style and way of living life, being a revered indie actress and on her way to becoming a cult icon, being engaged to rocker Ben Gibbard of Death Cab for Cutie, and being sisters with Emily Deschanel of my much-loved show Bones, she’s also smart and articulate-

” ‘Fear of losing it is the dark side, but the wonderful side is the feeling that you get when you fall in love. Everyone has the heart-break that shapes them in such a way that they could never go back to the innocence that they had before. Today there’s a lot of polarisation of points of view. People are either very cynical or overly romantic about love. Like somebody’s in love one day, and then the next day, they’re totally out of love – and I think that’s sort of a new thing.’

However, she has clearly given some thought to what is romantic and what isn’t – and Twitter, Facebook and internet dating definitely fall into the latter category: ‘They just don’t seem romantic to me. I think there are great things about the internet, and there are great things about being able to connect with people quickly, but I also think it’s strange to have your taste in music, and the movies and books you like be your calling card. I like this music, and I’m in this mood, and all that stuff, has nothing to do with who you are as a human being. It’s just not so interesting to me.’”

oh, and did I mention that she was named after Zooey Glass from J D Salinger’s novella Franny and Zooey?

Evening is the Whole Day

“You see,” said Paati, “people who are boring get bored very easily. Inside their own heads they got nothing to look at and nothing to think about. They can’t come up with their own games and stories, so they must go out to clubs-shubs all to hear other people’s stories.”

-Evening is the Whole Day, Preeta Samarasan

Television Round-Up

C&I Television Watchlist:

Currently watching:

Castle-ABC Mondays

Bones-Fox Mondays

Fringe-Fox Tuesdays

10 Things I Hate About You- ABC Mondays

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Television Songs Playlist

TV shows are one of the best places to mine new music from. As I’ve jettisoned my way through more and more TV shows over the course of time, I’ve gradually picked up more and more good music from them. Here is some of it.

Dawson’s Creek:

Say Goodnight not Goodbye Brooke Allison

Grace, Cara Dillon

Deep Blue Ocean, Lisa Meri

The Race, Deb Pasternak

Come Inside, Mary Beth

On Days Like These, Jannis Ian

More Than Meets the Eye by Vaughan Penn

Any Lucky Penny, Nikki Hassman

London Rain, Heather Nova

Felicity:

Here Comes the Flood, Peter Gabriel

Day Before Yesterday, Scout

Veronica Mars:

Stereophonics, Dakota

We Used to Be Friends, The Dandy Warhols

The O.C.:

Paint the Silence, South

Orange Sky, Alexi Murdoch

Into the Dust, Mazzy Star

Something Pretty, Patrick Park

Dice, Finn Quayle & William Orbit

Runnin up that Hill, Placebo

If You Leave, Nada Surf

California, Phantom Planet

Worn Me Down, Rachel Yamagata(Season 2 ep 3)

Everwood:

Leader of the Band, Dan Fogelberg

Golden Slumbers, Ben Folds(end of episode 105) Download

Greetings from the Side, Gary Jules(end of ep 106)

Lost:

Downtown, Petula Clark Download

Wash Away, Joe Purdy Download

Slowly, Ann-Margret

Are You Sure, Willie Nelson Download

Quotation and Song of the Day

In the end they knew each other so well that by the time they had been married for thirty years they were like a single divided being, and they felt uncomfortable at the frequency with which they guessed the other’s thoughts without intending to, or the ridiculous accident of one of them anticipating in public what the other was going to say. Together they  had overcome the daily incomprehension, the instantaneous hatred, the reciprocal nastiness and fabulous flashes of glory in the conjugal conspiracy. It was the time when they loved each other best, without hurry or excess, when both were most conscious of and grateful for their incredible victories over adversity. Life would still present them with other mortal trials, of course, but that no longer mattered: they were on the other shore.

-Love in the Time of Cholera, Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Song of the Day: Pills by The Perishers

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